In 1996 I filled for divorce had a vasectomy. I started seriously dating 5 years later and thought I was going to take the plunge again until... The she told me that she was pregnant. I made an appointment to check my sperm count, and was told I had ZERO chance of fathering a child.
Needless to say the relationship ended a few weeks later and I moved out of Florida 3 sons from my marriage which I now had custody of. After owning a business in Michigan for 4 years I returned to FL to take a job and was arrested during routine traffic stop for a suspended license because I owed $40,000 in child support.
With a little investigation I found out that she had the papers served to my X's address, which I never lived or received any mail. The papers were served to my 13 year old son which pissed my X off so she trashed the papers and never told me.
So here I am; they take 60% of my pay because I earn half of what I earned when she got pregnant. I cant afford to keep my sons but I cant afford to pay my ex wife child support but I work P/T under the table to pay her. I don't have the money to hire an attorney to get out of this mess. Legal aid was useless. So now I sit here in the library with a bunch of forms that I have no idea how to fill out or the money to file them. I need to have an DNA test requested which I cant afford. Owe, I forgot this one I earn to much to have the filing fees waived. (lol)
Basically I'm living on and trying to fight this with $16,000 after child support.
How hard will it be to reverse the child support?
Does anyone know where I can go in or near Ft. Lauderdale, FL. for legal advice? Or a good book on completing the forms?