My husband called his ex wife the other night, they got into a heated argument, she ended up threatening to come over to our house and beat him up(she's very aggressive, one of the reasons they are no longer married) He hangs up the phone on her. SUre enough 30 minutes later she shows up. They go outside and she is in his face yelling and screaming at him and putting her finger all in his face. He asks her to leave and she doesn't. They stand outside for about 20 minutes. He comes inside for a sec to grab a paper for her and I step outside. We kinda start getting into a argument and I ask her to leave. She doesn't. I push her and we start fighting. No punches are thrown, we just pushed eachother and grab eachother's hair. My husband walks back to where we are and tries to break us up. He wedges himself between me and her but we both still have eachother's hair. He ends up putting in a headlock. She head butts his nose. He tells her to let go of me or he will break her neck(which he would never really do, it was strictly a threat and she knew it). We both let go of eachother and she leaves. We called the cops and filed a report but did not press charges. She pressed charges against both of us. His is domestic violence in the 3rd degree and I got charged with harrassment. Neither of us have ever been in trouble before. My husband has a great job and we are worried what might happen. We called an attorney today and have an appt at 3. What do you expect will happen?