Grandparents to Supervise Visitation for My Ex

[krissy22]

My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Indiana

I have 100% physical and legal custody of my daughter. Her dad gets supervised visitation. The supervised court paperwork reads that "either party's family can be used to do the supervised, but as BOTH parties agree. I do not want my ex's parents to be in charge of the supervised visits. Since I have full custody, how can my rights to WHO does the supervising be challenged. I am following the court paperwork to a T. I do not agree with the grandparents doing the supervision. What are my rights here?

[Dogmatique]

What is the reason you don't want the grandparents supervising?

[Mr. Knowitall]

And you did you propose as an alternative?

[FatherWhoWon]

Hon, just because you have custody doesn't mean you have any more "rights" to decide on the supervisor than he does. You have the rights your court order gives you, and so does he. Your order says that you both have to agree. That means neither one of you can dictate. If you don't agree to the grandparents, then you (together) have to find someone else that you and he are both okay with. He can disagree with someone you suggest just the same as you have about the grandparents. But if you make yourself appear unreasonable about the situation, that will probably not bode well for you the next time you see the judge. So if you have a good reason why you think the grandparents are not an acceptable choice, but you are willing to consider other people that both you and dad can be happy with, you should be fine.