Adult Got Teen Pregnant - Can He Be Prosecuted Against Teen's Mom's Wishes

[Dogmatique]

One more word? If I may? Adoption.

Involuntary TPR because one parent is a child molester who frankly shouldn't (and might be barred by statute - I'd have to check, and this thread honestly doesn't inspire me to spend the time) have rights to the offspring of the child he molested, and the other parent is an immature child with no means to support the child at all.

[aardvarc]

Young_mind

You don't realize it yet. You may not realize it for a while. But eventually it will sink in: you have been taken advantage of by an adult. He has used you. You have been exploited. That doesn't take violence, or coercion, or anything unpleasant. this type of victimization occurs exactly because all of those obviously negative things AREN'T there. Instead, there are the compliments, the promises, the physical attention, the romantic ideas. Those are the exact tools that are the daily bread and butter of those who take advantage of LOTS of types of victims, but particularly minors. Those are the tools used to get you to give in to what they want - to put you in a position to make decisions that you are not ready to make, to take on things you are not yet ready for, physically, emotionally, financially - no matter how much you think you might be.

Not for today. Not for tomorrow. But for when the time comes when you need it, write this number down: 985-345-5995. For your own sake and the sake of your child, it's important to have someone to turn to - someone with no vested interest in getting you to do one thing, or not do another - someone who can help you discover what rights you have in regard to your medical care, decisions and choices you have regarding your child, and navigating the legal system, which WILL be involved here at some point. You will have different people pulling you in different directions, including your mother, family, the father, etc. Keep that number handy and use it when you're ready.

[horseyjess]

She gets nada.

See them walking the stroller down the street together? "Sir, you're under arrest on suspicion of...", which will also likely come with a court order to compel DNA testing. Game over.

Oh, they're never going to be seen in public? EVER? Well, I suppose that's one way to be. But he's not going to hang around for that, is he? No, he's not. He's just not.

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Ya know this might actually be the perfect scenario for him. I mean have his cake and eat it to. Have a young girl for a lover/ child bearing machine. That he won’t have to support nor be seen with on the outside. Then all because she is SO young AND has a child. She can't go out, can't get into clubs or bars. Will have to work or be home with the baby he doesn’t have to support. So he will be out partying having a good time and how is she to know? He can go in public with whomever he wants, won’t have to worry about being in public with
his victim as she will stay in the shadows to protect him. Plus she won’t need his support she can go it alone!

When I was 18, 19, 20 it would drive me crazy. I was married with a child living on my own. I could not go into clubs/bars alot of times because I was under 21. So my husband who was 22,23,24 couldn't go out to those places. But she won't admit or publicly show their relationship so he can do as he pleases for many years to come.

[PandorasBox]

THat's why I was responsible, and the minute I thought of having sex, went on birth control. Of course, I was 28 at the time....
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