I just don't see the issue. There is a legitimate reason for every dollar spent. It's not like it was money squandered at some casino. I left her the house to live with no mortgage while I moved out to an apartment with expenses. I am good at saving money and I think I can at least use some of it to initially set up my place to live while all of this gets settled. And as mentioned before, she was also withdrawing funds for her own personal use before and after the separation date. That should not be overlooked.