Just found out my wife wants me to pay her half of the 85k I withdrew over a period of 6 months from our joint account. She also withdrew funds close to 13k over this period of time but I am not holding her accountable. In addition, this was all prior to our date of separation which was still community funds. She was fully aware of my activity. Not sure if this is applicable to all states but I am in California. The judge already decided on a date of separation. I haven't touched anything after this date of separation, while she has. Am I liable to pay her half of the 85k?