My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Florida
I will first show you the orders that are in question that I believe my ex is violating.
Father shall get visitiation on his two days off of work per week to include two overnight stays
If one parent is more than 30 minutes late, without prior notice, the parent with the child can make other arrangements
each parent shall give the other parent emergency contact info to include telephone numbers and address ect...
Ok, i work 12am to 8am shift right now and my days off are weds/thurs. I get off work at 8 am tues morning and im off til thursday night at midnight. For the last couple months i have been getting my son on tuesday night or late afternoon so i can get my two overnight stays to go with the two days. there is no way for me to watch him overnight on thursday night because i have to work. well when my ex gets mad just feels like taking out frustration she tells me i have to pick him up by noon on tuesday or even earlier when she knows i have been up all night working and i have to get some sleep to be able to watch him. technically its her day with him and not mine because it is not my day off. I have texts saved of her telling me i better be there at noon or im not getting him this week. then she says since your not going to meet me there i have made other arrangements. the following day she calls and says she waited 30 mins for me and left. also she says she got a note from the police saying i did not show up. later that day when i woke up around 2 pm i asked her to let me see him and she did not. the following day i asked her again to let me pick up my son and she did not. She blamed it on me not coming.
Now my question is. Is she violating the custody order or can she get away with this. I have all the text saved and she is clearly doing it out of revenge because i told her i wanted to follow the parenting plan this summer where we will be alternating weeks with our son. Also, do we not have to agree on a place and time for someone to be 30 mins late and i also told her i could not meet her at that time. so is that not prior notice.
Also she has moved 4 times since we split up last year and has not given me her last 2 addresses. i have her on text saying im not telling you where i live take me to court. then a few weeks later she text me she is living at her moms house which i know is not true. can she get away with this.
last she was arrested for a criminal traffic case a few weeks ago. that combined with all the games she plays with visitation and our son and she hasnt had a steady job her whole life. is there a good chance i can get custody. I have 4 police reports where she made allegations of abuse and all were unfounded. 2 dcf reports with the same outcome. she is cleary trying to ruin me and use our son as a tool to exact revenge on me. I have tried everything with this girl but she just doesnt stop. also the doctors office has called in a report of neglect against her to dcf. I have a good job and have lived in the same house for 3 years now. I pay all my bills and have not missed one child support payment. I was paying her before i even had to. I have gotten my son every time i am supposed to and more unless she refuses to let me.
with all this will i be able to get custody?