My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Ohio.
I live in Texas and I have had a custody order out of Ohio where my brother and his wife lived for almost eight years. I removed my niece when she was four months from a sexually, and physically abusive home. She has been diagnosed with fetal alcohol syndrome and she still wears a diaper and she is almost eight due to bowel issues. She is a handful medically, physically, and emotionally. I dont know what else to do. I am not sure I am equipped to deal with her needs , the older she gets. Her behavior is so out there. I have asked the schools to test her for mental retardation and they said she is fine and will not test her. I have to watch her around men as she seems to flock to them for attention and she knows no stranger. She has older sibling who has sever behavioral problems and she is not on that level but it is almost too much for me. I feel like I am not the best caretaker for her, she knows me as mom, as I am the only mother she knows. I feel guilty for wanting to give up custody but am not sure I am not harming her more by not providing the right structure she needs. Please help