How to Move Out of State to Be with My Boyfriend So We Can Start Our Life Together

[Nave]

My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Arizona

Hi I have a 6 yr old daughter and I am now divorced legally from my husband as of 1 month ago, we had to satisfy the waiting period of 90 days. I am involved with a man from Maine and I want to eventually move there and obviously take my daughter. We have joint legal custody and I am listed as the primary custodian (I know that does not really matter). What are my chances of this happening? Can we still keep joint legal custody and just come to a new agreement for the custody? Will I have to fight for full custody? Where we would live literally has no crime and the schools are amazing, my daughter could have everything she has ever wanted there and the man I am involved with is a good man and is willing to be a part of this court hearing if he needs to pass any type of background checks. I feel stuck please help

[Dogmatique]

You've only been divorced for a month and you're wanting to relocate your daughter?

I can't see a judge approving this unless Dad agrees to the move.

Full custody does not, by the way, mean that Dad has no say in whether you can relocate your mutual child away.

[Dogmatique]

And really - per the thread title - "start our life together"? You mean you can't start it together where you're currently located?

[Nave]

I apologize I am emotional today and that is what came to mind. We are in 2 different states at the moment I know it would be a much better environment for my child and safer to. I am just needing some insight on this.

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yes we have only been divorced a month but separated for several. I have tried to divorce a few times but he is narcissistic and I let that control everything. I am to blame for letting it be that way but I have gotten out and now I want to move on

[Dogmatique]

Can't your boyfriend move to you?

Seriously, the child's access to her other parent is far more important than your new relationship. The other alternative is to give custody to Dad and you'll be free to move wherever you wish.

[Nave]

yes that is an option for sure we discussed this it's just that in Maine it is a much better environment for children to grow up in, the schools are better, I would have a better job and lower cost of living then here

[Dogmatique]

Then go with option B.

Because once you've paid for ALL transportation to and from Arizona when kiddo is with her father, you might find that your lower cost of living goes right out of the window.