[Anon1124]

My brother was divorced recently during the marriage he was away alot (military deployments) the first child his ex had during the marriage cannot be his child he was deployed during the time conception took place the second child is his no doubts so he signed the declaration of pat no problems but for the first child he was very young and listened to his wife whom he knew was a slut so he signed the dec of pat for that child as well His ex is very vindictive shes moved clean across the map to avoid letting my brother both visit his child and refuses to have a dna test for the child he has doubts about she finds it hilarious because he pays her a substantial amount of child support which he put on himself being that shes vindictive she laughs at him and tells him how stupid he is because he signed the declaration he assumed that because they were married at the time he had no choices but to sign it,hes taken care of this child since day one but recently his heart was ripped out be cause the father of her first child (not my brothers child she was pregnant w this child when they got married) told my brother that the child that my brother has doubts about is his child and hes known it all along but he didnt want to deal with her so he never said anything because dealing with her is a real pain in the A** Now with all of that being said she knows that my brother isnt this childs father so is there anything that he can do to force her to take the child for a dna test because she refuses because shes enjoying the money the child is nothing more than a mealticket to her,as she hasnt worked in over 10 years and never worked other than 4 months when they were married What if anything can my brother do about this?Also she recently filed to allocate my brothers rights to either one of the kids in Colorado he doesnt mind the child support as he loves his child and the child he has questions about but I feel that he needs to know if the child hes loved for 8 yrs is his biological child,After the lengthy and nasty divorce he endured because of her being vindictive and angry because hes moved on with his life I think he deserves to know the truth please help any and all info is very helpful Thanks in advance.

[rmet4nzkx]

In what state were the children born and when?
What do the custody and visitation orders say?
WHere did she move with the children?
Did she have permission to move?

[Anon1124]

In what state were the children born and when?
What do the custody and visitation orders say?
WHere did she move with the children?
Did she have permission to move?

they were born in California,
While deployed she left no she didn't have his permission to leave with the children,When he returned from deployment she had been gone with the kids for over six months so this has to be handled in Colorado I think because he filed for a divorce as soon as he returned from deployment.one child is 3 and the other child is 7 almost 8 No custody and visitation as of yet since the divorce decree was just done now custody and visitation has to be done where the kids reside in Colorado.Like I said since she decided to be vindictive and leave with the children to keep him from seeing them or getting joint custody of the children God I didnt know divorces could get so ugly I am sad for the children because they miss their dad,he cannot even talk to them on the phone without her listening to the conversation I heard him say I love you to his son and she said no he doesnt love you because if he loved you he would be here with you this is just plain wrong because he divorced her not his child or children if in fact the child in question is his.