My question involves a relationship in the state of: California
My (currently) girlfriend and I have been growing farther and farther apart. Every time we almost break up, she threatens to tally up all the money she has spent throughout and have her attorney "send me the bill". When I say all the money, I mean everything she has spent money on : food(for the two of us), gas (from her house to mine), gifts, the attorney fees, everything.
When we met, about nine months ago, I was in an occupational school, on legal probation(for a non-violent nor sexual charge), could not find work, and lived with my mom. I, currently, am a certified mechanic and I'm no longer on probation, but I still can't find a job(due to background), and still live off mom. So, she knows I can't pay for half of anything. Just to top it all off, she knows a guy in the FBI she uses to "check" on me. I've never heard from him, nor have I met him, but he "knows" me and "my kind". I used to illegally download, so this has me very worried I'll see the inside of a prison.
I want to do the right thing, but I'm scared to leave her if we can't workout our differences. What can she actually sue me for and what can I do about the FBI guy?