I live in Illinois, My husband and I had a horrible day of arguing and fighting with each other, long story short,he had left and went and got drunk at his brothers house and called for a ride home,once home he started the earlier fight up again; durring his ranting he went into our bedroom and said he had a present,he came out of our room into our dark dining room and said he had a gun, I thought I saw a gun (there was no gun), my daughter heard me yelling about a gun and called the police, once the police responded I told them that every thing was fine but they still wanted to come in and make sure, I let them in, after talking with me and my husband outside away from each other and another officer inside talking with my daughter, they said that they were taking my husband away to diffuse the situation and would release him later, I told them I did not want to press charges and that I would leave with the kids for the night, the police told me that they needed to take him in for my safety???? ( to back track a second) the present was his wedding ring in a box, he was going to let me know he wanted a divorce. The officer said that my daughter told him that earlier in the day my husband had pulled my hair, she how ever did not tell him that I was the aggressor in that situtation, nor did he ask and I did not offer that information. HE told me he needed me to write down what happened earlier in the day, I again said I was not pressing any charges, and he told me again that my husband would be let go that night, I was not aware that I could refuse to give any written statements and I was unaware that the statement I did give was going to be used against my husband. The officer also said that I should have no contact with my husband for the next 48 hours??? Again trying to make a long story short, the next day I was informed that my husband was not released and was in fact taken to the county jail. I had to pay 2,500. to bond him out and I still am not allowed to see or talk to him, it is now 2 months later. I have called the states attorney and have begged to have the no contact lifted. I was informed that this the only way they have to keep me safe??? Hello!!!! I tried to explain about the statement that was given and she told me it didn't matter now because I did not write any of the other stuff in my statement. A statement that I was not giving to press charges or to have my husband arrested.The statement I was giving was for the "officers records", how do I now get the no conatct lifted and or get the charges dropped???