My question involves civil rights in the State of: nc my wife and i had a child on feb 1st of this year. on feb 5th, we got into an argument. she beat the crap out of me took the baby, her belongings, and filed a restraining order on me. lived in a domestic violence shelter then weeks later broke down my door punched me roughly 40 times, then fled with our daughter in the car. police was called. she has two warrants for her arrest, a restraining order from me and i was granted emergency custody of our daughter but she has to turn herself in for me to have custody. i found out she has an attorney i havent found one yet. how do i beat this without an attorney, in case i dont have one in time. in regards to the restraining order she put on me, i was told that she could contact me but i couldnt contact her. so when she broke down the front door, she didnt violate it.