My Husband's Ex Wife Keeps Harrassing Me

[mommy333]

My husband's ex wife has dedicated her life to trying to destroy my life, reputation, marriage, family and relationship with my step-daughter. Over the last two years my husband's ex wife has gone to my home town and told everyone multiple lies about me. I have had to have her friends removed from my property on the three different occassions. She started a hate page against me on facebook but removed the page about six months into the custody battle between my husband and her. She got into my facebook page and got my passwords to my email account. Ihave since changed everything and removed my facebook page. When I got pregnant she told everyone she could find that it was not my husband's child, in both mine and my husband's home towns. My husband has custody of my step-daughter and I have been the maternal figure in our home for two years now. She has not once had a conversation with my husband without making some sort of nasty or sneer remark about me. She has had the nerve to go to my fathers house on more than one occassion and telling him that I am some sort of horrible person, accusing me of keeping her from seeing her daughter. She has told my step-daughter on multiple occassions that she is not allowed to love me. More recently, She has managed to get into my email and change the signature name to Twat Face. My step-daughter has waking up with severe chest pains and we ended up seeing a few specialist about this and they all stated that the chest pains were being triggered by anxiety from nightmares. At the appointment the specialist were asking about her medical history. When they asked if she had any sibblings she piped up in front of the child "she MIGHT have a half sister". Two weeks later when her was having her visit she watched two zombie movies with my step-daughter. After that she was too scared to even close the door to the bathroom and actually wet her pants because she was too scared to go to the bathroom because she thought there was a zombie behind the shower curtain. I stayed up for three nights in a row in her room to help her sleep. On the third night I hung a cross with the "now I lay me down to sleep" prayer on it to remind her that God will always watch over her through the night. At the next visit with her mom she told her mom about her new favorite wall orniment in her room (of which she loved), and her mother proceeded to tell her how I was a "bitch". During exchanges, picking up/dropping off, she has screamed at me and called me a "bitch", "****ing cunt" and "whore" infront of not only my step-daughter but my two children as well. She has run into my nieces in public while she has on a visit with her daughter and when my step-daughter was trying to say hi to her step cousins she proceeded to tell my nieces that they are not family and were unwelcomed and told them to go away and not to speak to my step-daughter. I can go on all day long, I have kept a note book of things that she has done to try and slander my name, family, marriage and relationship with my step-daughter. I currently have 103 incidents documented. She is making my life unbearable, and the worst part is that my step-daughter is getting the blunt of all of this. I refuse to engage in conversation with her whenever their are any children around or if there is not harrassment?another adult that I can trust present. What do I do? Can I press charges for slander? defimation of character?

[Dogmatique]

(Didn't you post this on a different forum? The zombie movie/bed-wetting thing is very, very familiar)

This doesn't fall under slander/defamation. This falls under your husband's responsibility to take charge of what's going on with regards to what's happening.

Why are you present for exchanges?

My husband's ex wife has dedicated her life to trying to destroy my life, reputation, marriage, family and relationship with my step-daughter. Over the last two years my husband's ex wife has gone to my home town and told everyone multiple lies about me. I have had to have her friends removed from my property on the three different occassions. She started a hate page against me on facebook but removed the page about six months into the custody battle between my husband and her. She got into my facebook page and got my passwords to my email account. Ihave since changed everything and removed my facebook page. When I got pregnant she told everyone she could find that it was not my husband's child, in both mine and my husband's home towns. My husband has custody of my step-daughter and I have been the maternal figure in our home for two years now. She has not once had a conversation with my husband without making some sort of nasty or sneer remark about me. She has had the nerve to go to my fathers house on more than one occassion and telling him that I am some sort of horrible person, accusing me of keeping her from seeing her daughter. She has told my step-daughter on multiple occassions that she is not allowed to love me. More recently, She has managed to get into my email and change the signature name to Twat Face. My step-daughter has waking up with severe chest pains and we ended up seeing a few specialist about this and they all stated that the chest pains were being triggered by anxiety from nightmares. At the appointment the specialist were asking about her medical history. When they asked if she had any sibblings she piped up in front of the child "she MIGHT have a half sister". Two weeks later when her was having her visit she watched two zombie movies with my step-daughter. After that she was too scared to even close the door to the bathroom and actually wet her pants because she was too scared to go to the bathroom because she thought there was a zombie behind the shower curtain. I stayed up for three nights in a row in her room to help her sleep. On the third night I hung a cross with the "now I lay me down to sleep" prayer on it to remind her that God will always watch over her through the night. At the next visit with her mom she told her mom about her new favorite wall orniment in her room (of which she loved), and her mother proceeded to tell her how I was a "bitch". During exchanges, picking up/dropping off, she has screamed at me and called me a "bitch", "****ing cunt" and "whore" infront of not only my step-daughter but my two children as well. She has run into my nieces in public while she has on a visit with her daughter and when my step-daughter was trying to say hi to her step cousins she proceeded to tell my nieces that they are not family and were unwelcomed and told them to go away and not to speak to my step-daughter. I can go on all day long, I have kept a note book of things that she has done to try and slander my name, family, marriage and relationship with my step-daughter. I currently have 103 incidents documented. She is making my life unbearable, and the worst part is that my step-daughter is getting the blunt of all of this. I refuse to engage in conversation with her whenever their are any children around or if there is not harrassment?another adult that I can trust present. What do I do? Can I press charges for slander? defimation of character?

I'm unclear as to why you deleted the responses you received.