Ok sorry for the long pause. I was able to contact his command, they said they would talk to him. The next day I recived a letter from his attorney saying that is was a bad idea to contact his command. He then sent me a text the following day saying that his attorney has contacted his command and told them that they are not to speak to me on the phone or deal with me at all. Everything needs to go between the lawyers. I tried to call his command again because he will still not pay his parts of the bills ect. They refused to speak with me. I just recived my bill from my lawyer it is over $300 for this one issue alone.... Him refusing to pay his part of the bills. So I'm not sure what to do now? Ne ideas? He is still refusing all communication with me at all.