My question involves a marriage in the state of: Many
I started reading some of the cases on here because I have an ex husband that can't let go. Now after reading many of the situations on here it has open more questions for me. What started me to look here on this site was because my ex husband is very vindictive and has brought up my past. I have been married to him twice the first time many years over 10 and then this time for several more. My first question is: during our first divorce(iowa) I had married someone (nevada) a month before my divorce was final. Does that make my marriage to that man null and void? This is where it becomes worse, within the following year I re married the man I divorced he stated to me that since the divorce was not final that the marriage was not legitimate and that by re marrying him we are fine? That basically I was never married to the nevada man. We remarried in oregon. There has been a second divorce (iowa) to that man I remarried.
I started calling getting my dates and I also am finding that when I married the 2nd ex husband for the first time my first divorce (oregon) from my first marriage was not final either. When I married (california) the second husband I was a few days from the divorce being finalized with the first husband. Ugh this is such a quandary that I just don't want to bite me in the rear in the end.
So basically am I still married to the man in Nevada? Are my marriages and divorces from the same man legal? or are they too null and void because I was not fully divorce from my original marriage by three days?
Thank you for your time and help!!!