Divorce decree set visitation for the summer. Last summer he didn't want to visit because he "Needed to get a summer job." I was reluctant, but out of respect for him becoming a young man, I agreed, but expressed my disappointment if he was simply using that as an excuse not to visit. Summer 2010 came and went, and no job. Summer 2011 is right around the corner, and once again he doesn't want to visit. I really want to see my son. I am willing to drop visitation to only 30 days, because I know its his summer too, to be spent with his mom and friends. So what can I do? My ex-wife can care less if he visits or not. She doesn' help with visitation expenses (they live in NY, I live in FL), eventhough our decree states expensees will be shared equally, but at this point I really don't care. For the past 2 summers I've paid for ALL airline tickets, and I will do it again just to see my kids. She doesn't/hasn't supported visitation for a long time. Since my sone was 13 she was saying, "He's old enough to choose for himself. If he doesn't want to visit, he doesn't have too". I think all that non-support has finally come to fruition. What can I do to see my son?