My question involves child abuse or neglect in the State of: New York
~Im 16 turnin 17 in May and my father passed away in late 2009 unexpectedly. Ive always been a "daddies girl" and have always hated my mother since day one(shes drinks and has never been ANY kind of emotional support). SO now, I am STUCK living with my mom. We constantly get in fights about NOTHING, like she takes the petty issues WAY too far, and we end up screaming in each others faces, and before long I personally have to leave and spend the nite at a friends house. Shes recently gotten a bf who swears up and down he'll take care of me and makes promises for my support if I move with him and her to Ohio(he already lives in ohio). I have a bf here(central ny) who I intend on marrying as soon as Im old enough so Im not about to dump the life I have here to go off and play "house" with this new "replacement daddy". She then proceeded to kick me out, then 2 days later change the story to that of I "ran away", so of course the cops believed her. I was living in my apt. with my bf for 2 weeks untill the Social Worker of my school called saying I was being marked truant...(i had to get a job to pay for the apt and i was living downtown going to Liverpool schools, i had to drop out but my mom didnt sign the drop out papers so i had to tell them id finish later) which they didnt let me do, but they didnt say anything against it untill after i had stopped going. The 2nd week- my mom calls me saying if i didnt pack my stuff and come home shed call the cops on my bf (19 years old) for "rape" (even though she was fine with it due to her having him move in with us) ...so i was forced to move back in and continue going to school or my bf would be put in jaill and i either in juvie or some detention center... however, I believe I have been emotionally and mentally abused by her for the drama, and fighting thats going on. I didnt need any of this ON TOP of gettin over my dads passing. I want to get emancipated also but you have to be living out of the parents home, and i recently was forced by her and the cops to move back in and quit my VERY GOOD paying job downtown... so that was out of my control cuz obviously i have no voice or say in this matter at this point in time.
PLEASE, is this abuse? because if it is considered abuse then i could possibly use it in my favor for the emancipation process.