Fiancé Jailed for Back Child Support

[singlemom87]

I think its funny that she may be snapping at all of the people on here who tried to help her but she just doesnt like to hear the truth. Bottom line, lets not be angry lets have pity lol She is the one fighting for a guy who has *clears throat* a felony, no job, back child support, in jail, in debt....and no prospects of even getting empolyment at McD's......Hope things work out lol

[theresalakatos]

Luck nothing!!! I can call witness's, I can show evidence. They cant prove he has money. The problem is... (you should know this) - they are going to violate these rights, right in front of me!!! They are doing it right now. As soon as I get power of Attorney - believe me - he wont be in there long!!! They know what they are doing. It is not right. Problem with most is this... they are stuck in there, legally incapacitated! They dont know thier rights and most dont have anyone who is willing to stand up and fight. Most of these men are beat down, not dead beat.

with no money and a bunch of haters.

If I would have listend to your advice, I would have probably been thrown out of the court room. Pity, your out of your mind! That is his past! He has a Great future. The problem with most people is they cant get out of thier past, because people try and keep them there. Like this comment - *clears throat* a felony, no job, back child support, in jail, in debt....and no prospects of even getting empolyment at McD's......Hope things work out lol*************** I am so glad that my fiance does not have this mind set, I am so glad that he stopped listening to garbage like this!!! Garbage in, garbage out.

[Antigone]

Luck nothing!!! I can call witness's, I can show evidence. They cant prove he has money. The problem is... (you should know this) - they are going to violate these rights, right in front of me!!! They are doing it right now. As soon as I get power of Attorney - believe me - he wont be in there long!!! They know what they are doing. It is not right. Problem with most is this... they are stuck in there, legally incapacitated! They dont know thier rights and most dont have anyone who is willing to stand up and fight. Most of these men are beat down, not dead beat.

with no money and a bunch of haters.

If I would have listend to your advice, I would have probably been thrown out of the court room. Pity, your out of your mind! That is his past! He has a Great future. The problem with most people is they cant get out of thier past, because people try and keep them there. Like this comment - *clears throat* a felony, no job, back child support, in jail, in debt....and no prospects of even getting empolyment at McD's......Hope things work out lol*************** I am so glad that my fiance does not have this mind set, I am so glad that he stopped listening to garbage like this!!! Garbage in, garbage out.

spoken like a true bedwarmer

The names and faces may change but the mentality and the attitude stays the same.

[theresalakatos]

No it does not! He does not think of himself like that anymore. He has a great attitude. He stopped looking back, has begun something new! As soon as this over, which it will be - he will walk in his newness of life. By the way, my fiance can count his women on one hand and deduct 2 finger doing it!! I see why!

[Dogmatique]

Luck nothing!!! I can call witness's, I can show evidence.

Um..no. YOU can't do anything.


Don't you understand? YOU are not party to anything. YOU can't do anything in court. YOU are completely powerless.

They cant prove he has money. The problem is... (you should know this) - they are going to violate these rights, right in front of me!!!

And this is not your legal matter.

They are doing it right now. As soon as I get power of Attorney - believe me - he wont be in there long!!!

You have no idea what PoA is, do you?

That does NOT mean you can stand up in court on his behalf. It does NOT mean you can file things on his behalf. It does NOT mean that you ....well, rinse, repeat.

You are not a party to this case, and never will be - even if you get married within the next half hour.

They know what they are doing.

Yeap, they're trying to get a father to pay child support. It's pretty simple.

It is not right. Problem with most is this... they are stuck in there, legally incapacitated! They dont know thier rights and most dont have anyone who is willing to stand up and fight. Most of these men are beat down, not dead beat.

7 years in and out of incarceration and not paying child support = deadbeat.

with no money and a bunch of haters.

If I would have listend to your advice, I would have probably been thrown out of the court room. Pity, your out of your mind! That is his past! He has a Great future. The problem with most people is they cant get out of thier past, because people try and keep them there. Like this comment - *clears throat* a felony, no job, back child support, in jail, in debt....and no prospects of even getting empolyment at McD's......Hope things work out lol*************** I am so glad that my fiance does not have this mind set, I am so glad that he stopped listening to garbage like this!!! Garbage in, garbage out.

*facepalm*

No it does not! He does not think of himself like that anymore. He has a great attitude. He stopped looking back, has begun something new! As soon as this over, which it will be - he will walk in his newness of life. By the way, my fiance can count his women on one hand and deduct 2 finger doing it!! I see why!

Naw. He'll walk away with a felony record, and some poor gal (who has kids of her own, natch) willing to make his excuses for him.

[theresalakatos]

One thing we have in common - among many. No, I have never been to jail, never demanded child support from my x-husband, whom I know could not pay! I had that right. I allowed him to see his daughter, he was able to have a relationship. Unlike my fiance. Who was denied all of that except one visitation! Before he even had all of these charges, all of this debt, and everything else! He had money, he had so called stuff - he paid when he could. I have the proof. You ever thought that he loved her, and for no good reason - except adultry - one day your life crashes down all around you. it could drive a person to insanity! I have seen his insanity, change. he does not live that life style any longer, and has not for years. I have been engaged to him for a long time, reason - I needed to see the change - I did. Long lasting change. No one can tell me, that God can not help a person better himself. God is Good - He forgives and shows mercy, and it was HIS Love (unconditional) towards my husband that brought about the change. Love is not nasty, it does not judge, it does not act unkindly, it definitly does not keep track of your wrongs. If people would love, maybe they could see it too. But saying nasty things, dredging up the past, name calling, and spewing poison out of thier mouths, about (thier husbands, or fiances) does not help them. It destroys them. that is all I have heard here! Destructive words!! Not constructive, destructive!
If you dont think that this kind of nastiness did not help destroy your relationship with your fiances and husbands - you need to think again. Love build someone up, not tear them down. by the way - bed roller -comment - we dont roll in a bed togethr! Dont you think, I learned from my first husband??? Most have not! That is why they are still bed rolling!!! thier mouths and behavior - probably ended thier relationships. And if you ask most - they could look back at thier past and see a whole lot of relationships with people gone bad, that if it would have been done in and with love - would not.

I am not powerless - dont you know, they have noteries in jail!! I have a legal document that when he signs, gives me the right to act upon his behalf!!! I have had it looked at and it is legal in this state.

One thing we have in common - among many. No, I have never been to jail, never demanded child support from my x-husband, whom I know could not pay! I had that right. I allowed him to see his daughter, he was able to have a relationship. Unlike my fiance. Who was denied all of that except one visitation! Before he even had all of these charges, all of this debt, and everything else! He had money, he had so called stuff - he paid when he could. I have the proof. You ever thought that he loved her, and for no good reason - except adultry - one day your life crashes down all around you. it could drive a person to insanity! I have seen his insanity, change. he does not live that life style any longer, and has not for years. I have been engaged to him for a long time, reason - I needed to see the change - I did. Long lasting change. No one can tell me, that God can not help a person better himself. God is Good - He forgives and shows mercy, and it was HIS Love (unconditional) towards my husband that brought about the change. Love is not nasty, it does not judge, it does not act unkindly, it definitly does not keep track of your wrongs. If people would love, maybe they could see it too. But saying nasty things, dredging up the past, name calling, and spewing poison out of thier mouths, about (thier husbands, or fiances) does not help them. It destroys them. that is all I have heard here! Destructive words!! Not constructive, destructive!
If you dont think that this kind of nastiness did not help destroy your relationship with your fiances and husbands - you need to think again. Love build someone up, not tear them down. by the way - bed roller -comment - we dont roll in a bed togethr! Dont you think, I learned from my first husband??? Most have not! That is why they are still bed rolling!!! thier mouths and behavior - probably ended thier relationships. And if you ask most - they could look back at thier past and see a whole lot of relationships with people gone bad, that if it would have been done in and with love - would not.

I am not powerless - dont you know, they have noteries in jail!! I have a legal document that when he signs, gives me the right to act upon his behalf!!! I have had it looked at and it is legal in this state.

In the facility that he is in - he is allowed to have any document that he needs notorized by a legal notery! All it takes, is money. I have the money. USPS does deliver there! USPS does allow him to mail things back!

[Dogmatique]

YOU CANNOT ACT AS HIS ATTORNEY.


But if you think that you can, by all means, you go right ahead.


You NEED to understand what PoA actually allows someone to do because it's PAINFULLY obvious you don't.

And notaries? Really?

Do you understand what a notary does?

Ooooooooooooooh, now we understand each other.

You have the money to do everything...but actually pay his child support.

Gotcha.

[theresalakatos]

I dont think - I ever said it was going to be me!! Did I? Did I say it was power of attorney? what if, that attorney I had to pay for (so you thought,) would act for his better on his part, because he has seen the evidence, knows his rights. Do your home work, they do have noteries.

[Dogmatique]

I dont think - I ever said it was going to be me!! Did I? Did I say it was power of attorney? what if, that attorney I had to pay for (so you thought,) would act for his better on his part, because he has seen the evidence, knows his rights. Do your home work, they do have noteries.

You said:

"I can call witnesses".

You cannot.

Read your own posts.

Seriously theresa....I understand that English might not be your first language (that's the case, correct?) and that you're not understanding everything that's being said to you. But the bottom line is, you don't understand much about the reality of your fiance's situation, or how the courts work.

And for that reason alone - HE needs an attorney.

[theresalakatos]

I understand english - you must not read it! HE has one.