This one is long and complex but may be interesting to read...
My question involves criminal law for the states of: Florida and Massachusetts
(I said I was 16 and she was 31 because that was true for the majority of the relationship)
I'm 17 and I live in Massachusetts. Until very recently, I was in a serious online relationship with a 32 year old woman. The relationship lasted from September 2009 until about 2 weeks ago. I gave full consent and even encouraged her, but my parents never knew she existed. The relationship included:
1. Numerous photos of her (and some of myself) not nude but as close as possible to it (for example, in 3 of them, she was in panties without a shirt or bra on, covering her breasts with only her forearms).
2. Long messages, almost daily, like you'd expect from a long-distance couple.
3. 5 or 6 phone calls, for 2 of which there is record of on a landline phone bill which is still in my parent's possession. The others were made using VoIP (Skype) on my end. She always used her cell phone.
4. Occasional talk of her picking me up so we could live together.
Over the past 3 weeks, she has been avoiding me, and I recently found out that she had been cheating on me with the guy who was supposed to drive with her up here on December 27th. Sparing the details, it didn't work out that way, and last week she told me of their engagement. In my rage, I threatened to take a bus down to her house and commit suicide at her doorstep (specifically never threatened harm to them, only to myself). I then publicly posted their personal information (full names, address, and phone numbers) without their permission, but a couple minutes later she said it was fine with her and that whoever wants to can contact her or show up at her house. I'm curious:
Does it make legal sense to try to press charges against her? We never had actual cyber sex despite saying we loved each other and making plans for sex before I turn 18. At one point she encouraged me to get on a bus and come to her house to live with her in Florida. Was it illegal for me to publicly state their personal information? And is she at legal fault for being involved with me in this way? Thank you so much for your help!