Possible Cyber Bullying by a Soon to Be Lawyer

[jaguar99]

This was sent by a senior student of a Windsor University's Law Program up her in Canada Ontario.

These email was sent to myself, and many other people (trying to make me look bad) on a personal issue. Yeah I probably look like the idiot but anyways, read on.

I might add as a student of law, threats and slander against people with mental disorders are outrageous in my opinion. (Especially when I don't feel like I was in the wrong, I did break the "un-said" don't date your friends ex rule but still...)

His motiv: I dated his ex-girlfriend and I even tried to apologize (thats how it started). I know I'm the "loser" here but serious I feel like real crap because of what he's saying back. (Yes he probably felt like crap knowing I dated his ex)

Should I just ignore this and move on? Is this an example of Cyber Bullying?


(NAMES CHANGED/REMOVED!)


Note all these messages were CC'd to many people to make me look bad.




---------- Forwarded message ----------(FROM ME quoting his text)



I'm not going to take this kind of abuse anymore.

You can threaten me as much as you want but seriously this just is starting to sound like harassment to me. I could care less about what you say or what you do at this point. Maybe I will loose all my friends I do and say things I don't mean sometimes like anyone else.

"I can also point out to Anna that putting Nicole in front of a TV for 4 days a week doesn't qualify as parenting. " She's limited to 1 or 2 hours a day and then we have playtime so don't tell me you know anything about parenting.

"Keep pushing me and I will discuss with Chris, your biggest defender how you hated working with him cause he was lazy and how you considered calling Children's Aid on him for hotboxing his apartment with pot." I have said things (Maybe I did not mean them or took them to the extreme) in the past when they bothered me, I only said those things because he "smoked" in doors by his window and it bothered me and I was venting to a friend. He has not since. Sorry Chris. I should never open my mouth again.

"You should leave well enough alone, I've already had a guy deported in Vancouver just to make my landlady's life miserable, its not like I'm above doing whatever I legally can." Good to know. Another threat.

"so back off me and my family and leave us be and we will do the same with you." Thanks for another threat. Becoming a lawyer you really have no respect for what's said in a sense of confidence.

" Everyone knows you're a bipolar moron who can't stop setting his disease off on purpose. " Really? Thats why I stopped doing drugs and actually cleaned myself up. Can't wait till you get into politics.

"Hell there is a 20% chance you'll off yourself and a good chance you will hurt someone close to you in an episode. " really? How low can you go.

Thanks for the embarrassment. It's nice knowing anything anyone ever tells you will one day be known to the world. You will make a great lawyer and politician (not really though). You can't make me feel like anymore **** and I have nothing to lose personally because I still cared about you and felt bad I hurt you for the longest time. Now I could care less.

I will be sending a copy of this to the authorities and a lawyer since I don't have any other choice or friends now anyways.



---------- Forwarded message ----------(FROM HIM)


Really? You think you have some sort of moral ground that makes you think you shouldn't just take the licks and move on? You really think responding was a good idea? I was going to leave well enough alone, but now I will say one last thing to set the record straight.

Did you tell Megan that you told me you thought she was ugly and that I should dump her because I could do so much better?

I said this because thats what friends say to each other when asked about their girlfriends.


Did you tell her how you encouraged me to pursue a relationship with Cindy when I broke up with Megan?

I was testing you.


Did you tell her that I didn't want to and I didn't?

I don't know that you did or didn't. I don't care.


Did you tell Megan that when she broke up with me I told both you and Steve that you should both continue to be her friends?

Yeah she knew that but then you made me to choose between her and you.


Did you tell her that you said you didn't want to and that you only ever talked with her because of me?




Did you tell Megan that the day you ****ed her (OMG ******) after you had drinks with her that the reason you met with her was to try and find out what happened between her and I?

Actually it wasn't that day. And actually at that point I just wanted to hang out with her as friends and I forgot about you.



Did you tell her it was not me who asked you to do that, but instead you who offered?

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Did you tell her that it was you who offered not to be friends with her after you ***** her rather than tell me the truth? In other words I never asked you not to be friends with her?

You gave me a choice. I choose you. Then I ***** up again. But now I see it as a good move.



Did you tell her that I had always asked both you and Steve never to lie to her on my behalf while we were dating? (ie when we went to strip clubs and you offered to tell her we went to Arizonas)

I'm sure you were awesome to her and maybe you'd be with her if you weren't a controlling ****** who always has to have his way and weren't so mentally abusive to her.



I can only imagine what you must have really had to tell her to get her to **** you. Really, I obviously didn't know her as well as I thought I did. I guess its conceivable that if she hated me enough she would **** my best friend and have a relationship with him, but you? Everyone knows you're a bipolar moron who can't stop setting his disease off on purpose. We all know you are going nowhere in this world. Hell there is a 20% chance you'll off yourself and a good chance you will hurt someone close to you in an episode. You are the definition of loser. Sure you had potential, but that is all gone now. I really thought she was smarter than that. She felt the same way about you. Given how I know you felt about her, I wonder if she knows she was just a hole to park your dick in.

Well, with that said I gotta say one thing that I truly mean - thank you. To be completely honest I have felt, as you know, a deep sense of loss for the past year. I felt like I lost the best girl in the world and didn't know why. I wish you had told me this earlier because that feeling of loss is all over. It is a lot easier losing trash than the best girl in the world. Honestly, I feel so much better. I am even surprised at the lack of pure rage. I gotta tell you though that I still have a thirst for vengeance which I have so far tried to contain to just the previous email. Keep pushing me and I will discuss with Chris, your biggest defender how you hated working with him cause he was lazy and how you considered calling Children's Aid on him for hotboxing his apartment with pot. I can also point out to Anna that putting Nicole in front of a TV for 4 days a week doesn't qualify as parenting. You should leave well enough alone, I've already had a guy deported in Vancouver just to make my landlady's life miserable, its not like I'm above doing whatever I legally can.

I hope you and Megan get back together. I can think of nothing more that would make me and her even for what she did than to be in a relationship with you. LMAO

As for you, being you has got to be more than enough revenge, so back off me and my family and leave us be and we will do the same with you.



---------- Forwarded message ----------(FROM ME)



Really "Eat shit ******" ? (Well I hope your wedding sucks *****)

BTW.... Didn't you date two best friends?

What about the family who knew Megan for 15 years(?), and left her high and dry....




---------- Forwarded message ----------(FROM HIS SISTER)


Wow.

Didn't see this coming. Am I surprised? I guess I am.

Really? That's what you do to a family who've you've exchanged holiday gifts with? People, you not only lived with, but who truly cared for you and your well being and your family? We treated you like family. When you got ill, we looked out for you like we would have our own blood. Too bad brother, I hope you're able to find that somewhere else. You didn't just lose one of your best friends for a pathetic useless human being, you lost an entire family.

I want you to know, I waited 24 hours before I hit send on this message. And here I am, still just as dumbfounded at how you idiots ****ed up.

Megan, now we all know how Bob feels about you. How embarrassing. But, really are you surprised?

Bob, I am disgusted by you. But Thank you. You taught us all a valuable lesson.

That no matter how loyal you are to people, there are those out there who have no moral conscience and who will stab you in the back as they smile to your face.

Eat shit assholes




---------- Forwarded message ----------(FROM HIM SENT TO EVERYONE WE KNOW!!!!!!!!!! Yes it outted me and it sucked)


I've known these two classy people, Bob Smith and Megan Anderson, for almost half my life, Turns out I didn't know them at all.




---------- Forwarded message ---------- (FROM ME)


I guess now is a good a time as any.

Yes you don't have any reason to trust me because after all that was said before was lies (well more like not telling you and twisting words - not full out lies) in order to protect you.

I did have relations with your ex, I broke the biggest man code of all. Add another one to my **** ups in life. "Don't let Bob around your ex's"

I felt very ***** bad about it and wanted to come clean along time ago but have been waiting for the right time. (didn't want to interrupt your school, Christmas, birthday etc).

I have been living in guilt and shame ever since and I apologize for not telling you sooner. I really did not want any of this to ever happen. (I blame alcohol) << Ok maybe a bit too blunt

We were only together for a bit and every time I ended up dumping her for some reason. (it usually had to do with the guilt to be quite honest). I think the longest was a month if I can remember.

Dumped her like 3 times.

The worst part is..... She lives in the basement.

The last dump-age was final and I told her we can only be roomates and I hardly even talk to her.

She pissed me off a few times when we were together, right now its pretty weird, but when I moved in with her when we were "just friends" in order for both of us to have better life. The whole going out thing happened before the moving in thing (e.g. I did it mostly so Nicole could have a backyard etc etc.. I could have privacy, save money etc etc. )

If it means anything at all, I hope you know that I always hid it from you because I cared about how you would take it and I didn't want you to do anything rash at the time you were going through allot of mental stress.

I hope that you DO hate me forever because I would hate anyone that did that to me. That being said if you feel like kicking my ***, killing me, etc etc.

Can you do it on a day where i don't have my kid?

But I think I'll probably just stay in hiding.