My question involves Collecting child support arrearages. I have a court order of Child support in the state of SC. I now live in NC and my EX lives in FL. My Children are 23 and 25. I have asked many of the numerous case workers that have handled my case over the past 12 years why a Bench warrant hasn't been served and no one can give me a straight answer. Can I do anything about getting my money. Can I file some sort of contempt of court myself? How do I have a Bench warrant served. Please someone tell me what I can do to collect this money. I have tried Support Kids.com and several others like it. I have been told that now that the child are 18, there can't be anything done but how do people go about getting the arrearages?