Hi, I'm out in California, riverside county. I recently went to court over visitation, in the order are the drop off orders which says she has to drop the kids off every Friday by 5:30 pm at my house, and I have to drop them off at her house every Sunday by 7 pm. Over the last two months she's never dropped them when she's supposed to. If she actually manages to drop them off on Friday, it's usually between 12-2 pm. Aside from that she keeps asking me to meet her here or these, or she just flat out refuses to drop them off at all, requiring me to go pick them up Friday, and then drop them off Sunday. She constantly calls or text's me on Sunday to verify if I'm going to be on time Sunday's when I drop them off, which I always am, and I usually get a call every Wednesday or Thursday where she tells me she can't or wont do it for various reasons, most of which are that she hasn't received her support check from child support services that week, (although it does get paid on time), so she doesn't have the gas.
So does anyone know what I do when she doesn't show up with the kids? Do I call the police and have them make a report every time so I have proof? I don't trust the judge to just believe me since when we were in court she believed every single lie my ex told her, and would listen to anything I had to say. If you can help with some advice, I'd really appreciate it.