I am a worried mom and grandmother in Ca. In Feb my son and his girlfriend got into a fight, they were both getting physical. She called the police and he was arrested, later got out on his OR. He did not want to give a statement.
The judge issued a 3 year restraining order but left no provision for my grandson ( 1 1/2 years old) I offered to be the go between for them and she told me to take a hike, that she would contact him as she "da@@" well pleased.
So now in May they got into it again, she pressed charges again. Now he is in jail with a public defender defending him. His "pre-trial" is June 24.
PC 136.1(B)(1 F ATT PRVNT/ETC VIC/ETC:RPT
PC 243(E(1 M
PC 591.5 M
He also had DUI last year which he was on probation for (another incident they were fighting)
He is bi-polar, but does take his meds. Besides the incidents with them he has never got into an trouble for violence. Now they are sending an investigator out to my house because they want more info. There are multiple incidents. Some documented , many witnesses of her own violent behavior when mad. I have seen her kick his car windshield in when mad, attack him, provoke him and the last incident she was driving fast behind him following him with the baby in the car, then got out and threatened him with a baseball bat. I have text messages of her threatening to "slit" another girls throat. Now if I tell all that's been happening I am afraid they will take my grandson and they will both be in jail and I am so upset I don't know what to do.
BTW- my son is normally not this way. He is a great dad, has a job and an apt but when the two of them fight it's awful. I feel they are both in the wrong and I am very worried about my grandson.