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    Default Step Parent Adoption When the Biological Father is Incarcerated

    My question involves adoption law for the State of: Florida
    Hello,
    My situation is that my husband wants to adopt my 17 year old daughter. I filed the papers in court for step parent adoption and her biological father that is incarcerated and awaiting trial for the 7 yr sexual battery of our oldest daughter(12-19 yrs old). I recieved notice that the biological father is fighting the adoption. He has been in jail since mid 2009, and trial just was contunued until after September 2010 for the third time. As you can imagine my 17 year old does not want to be related or assoicated with her biological father. She did not want to wait for her 18th birthday for an adult adoption. She wants his name off of her as soon as possible. He has not paid any child support since my marriage to my current husband in late 2008. He also has not paid for either daughters medical insurance as ordered in the MSA. My husband now has a Hearing Before General Magistrate that he has to go to based on the ex husbands wanting to challenge the adoption. The ex husband stated that my husband has been in a custody case in regards to my 17 yr old before which is not true, and he states that there is a child support order in effect in Florida which is also not true. In addition he is asking the court to provide him with legal respresentation stating he has no access to a legal law library, which is a lie, the jail that he resides in even allows inmates to check out law books.

    What can we do to win my daughter her freedom from this monster? Please help!

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    Default Re: Step Parent Adoption When the Biological Father is Incarcerated

    I may be wrong, but you might have to wait until the result of the trial before anything can be set in stone. I know it's not what you want to hear, but it's pretty unfair, regardless of the circumstances in which he is currently awaiting trial for, for him to be forced to relinquish his parental rights without officially being convicted anything.

    Innocent until proven guilty.

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    Default Re: Step Parent Adoption When the Biological Father is Incarcerated

    This adoption is likely not going to happen.

    As ealexdixon said, Dad has the right to due process and has every right to fight the proceedings.

    Frankly the chances of an adoption taking place before kiddo turns 18 are slim to none.
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    Default Re: Step Parent Adoption When the Biological Father is Incarcerated

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    My question involves adoption law for the State of: Florida
    Hello,
    My situation is that my husband wants to adopt my 17 year old daughter. I filed the papers in court for step parent adoption and her biological father that is incarcerated and awaiting trial for the 7 yr sexual battery of our oldest daughter(12-19 yrs old). I recieved notice that the biological father is fighting the adoption. He has been in jail since mid 2009, and trial just was contunued until after September 2010 for the third time. As you can imagine my 17 year old does not want to be related or assoicated with her biological father. She did not want to wait for her 18th birthday for an adult adoption. She wants his name off of her as soon as possible. He has not paid any child support since my marriage to my current husband in late 2008. He also has not paid for either daughters medical insurance as ordered in the MSA. My husband now has a Hearing Before General Magistrate that he has to go to based on the ex husbands wanting to challenge the adoption. The ex husband stated that my husband has been in a custody case in regards to my 17 yr old before which is not true, and he states that there is a child support order in effect in Florida which is also not true. In addition he is asking the court to provide him with legal respresentation stating he has no access to a legal law library, which is a lie, the jail that he resides in even allows inmates to check out law books.

    What can we do to win my daughter her freedom from this monster? Please help!

    When does your daughter turn 18? Unfortunately, even if it a full 12 months from now, it's highly unlikely that a contested adoption would even get into court for a final hearing within 12 months. Especially if you are doing this pro-se.

    The better course will be to just wait it out until her 18th birthday. On her birthday (if it's a week day) your husband can file for an adult adoption.

    Although I understand your daughter's feelings, I'm sure that this is going to cost alot of money, even pro-se, so wouldn't that money be put to better use, such as giving it to daughter?

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    Default Re: Step Parent Adoption When the Biological Father is Incarcerated

    Thank you for all of the responses, I agree with the legal, innocent until proven guilty. He will be proven guilty, I don't doubt that. 3 more charges of lewd/ lac. molestation were just added to his case yesterday upon the ADA's review of my daughters deposition.

    In Florida, do the children not get to speak to the judge or representative of the court about their wishes? I would think that with the fact that she has outwardly never in 17 years liked her father, would make a difference.

    Also,in Florida does not paying child support not warrant child abandonment by the father if the father is known to still be paying car payments and credit cards off of his VA benefits while incarcerated?

    I did tell my daughter that I would resubmit for adult adoption if this is to continue to be challenged by biological father. I realized the possibibilty existed that he might fight it, but it was for my daughters peace of mind to show her that we moved on the adoption as fast as we could. Too me that $400.00 whether it was thrown away or not was worth it. We will be filling for adult adoption on a Thursday in 8 months if the hearing July does not go well.

    Again thank you for any advice!

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    Default Re: Step Parent Adoption When the Biological Father is Incarcerated

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    Also,in Florida does not paying child support not warrant child abandonment by the father if the father is known to still be paying car payments and credit cards off of his VA benefits while incarcerated?

    Title V, Chapter 39, 39.01 Definitions.--When used in this chapter, unless the context otherwise requires:

    (1) "Abandoned" or "abandonment" means a situation in which the parent or legal custodian of a child or, in the absence of a parent or legal custodian, the caregiver, while being able, makes no provision for the child's support and has failed to establish or maintain a substantial and positive relationship with the child. For purposes of this subsection, "establish or maintain a substantial and positive relationship" includes, but is not limited to, frequent and regular contact with the child through frequent and regular visitation or frequent and regular communication to or with the child, and the exercise of parental rights and responsibilities. Marginal efforts and incidental or token visits or communications are not sufficient to establish or maintain a substantial and positive relationship with a child. The term does not include a surrendered newborn infant as described in s. 383.50, a "child in need of services" as defined in chapter 984, or a "family in need of services" as defined in chapter 984. The incarceration of a parent, legal custodian, or caregiver responsible for a child's welfare may support a finding of abandonment.

    http://www.flsenate.gov/STATUTES/

    Hope this helps!

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    Florida statutes, Sec. 63.087, describes how the termination of parental rights may be sought in an adoption case, referencing the following statute for possible grounds:
    Quote Quoting Florida Statutes, Sec. 63.089 Proceeding to terminate parental rights pending adoption; hearing; grounds; dismissal of petition; judgment.
    (1) HEARING.--The court may terminate parental rights pending adoption only after a hearing.

    (2) HEARING PREREQUISITES.--The court may hold the hearing only when:
    (a) For each person whose consent to adoption is required under s. 63.062:
    1. A consent under s. 63.082 has been executed and filed with the court;

    2. An affidavit of nonpaternity under s. 63.082 has been executed and filed with the court;

    3. Notice has been provided under ss. 63.087 and 63.088; or

    4. The certificate from the Office of Vital Statistics has been provided to the court stating that a diligent search has been made of the Florida Putative Father Registry created in s. 63.054 and that no filing has been found pertaining to the father of the child in question or, if a filing is found, stating the name of the putative father and the time and date of the filing.
    (b) For each notice and petition that must be served under ss. 63.087 and 63.088:
    1. At least 20 days have elapsed since the date of personal service and an affidavit of service has been filed with the court;

    2. At least 30 days have elapsed since the first date of publication of constructive service and an affidavit of service has been filed with the court; or

    3. An affidavit of nonpaternity, consent for adoption, or other document that affirmatively waives service has been executed and filed with the court.
    (c) The minor named in the petition has been born.

    (d) The petition contains all information required under s. 63.087 and all affidavits of inquiry, diligent search, and service required under s. 63.088 have been obtained and filed with the court.
    (3) GROUNDS FOR TERMINATING PARENTAL RIGHTS PENDING ADOPTION.--The court may enter a judgment terminating parental rights pending adoption if the court determines by clear and convincing evidence, supported by written findings of fact, that each person whose consent to adoption is required under s. 63.062:
    (a) Has executed a valid consent under s. 63.082 and the consent was obtained according to the requirements of this chapter;

    (b) Has executed an affidavit of nonpaternity and the affidavit was obtained according to the requirements of this chapter;

    (c) Has been served with a notice of the intended adoption plan in accordance with the provisions of s. 63.062(3) and has failed to respond within the designated time period;

    (d) Has been properly served notice of the proceeding in accordance with the requirements of this chapter and has failed to file a written answer or appear at the evidentiary hearing resulting in the judgment terminating parental rights pending adoption;

    (e) Has been properly served notice of the proceeding in accordance with the requirements of this chapter and has been determined under subsection (4) to have abandoned the minor;

    (f) Is a parent of the person to be adopted, which parent has been judicially declared incapacitated with restoration of competency found to be medically improbable;

    (g) Is a person who has legal custody of the person to be adopted, other than a parent, who has failed to respond in writing to a request for consent for a period of 60 days or, after examination of his or her written reasons for withholding consent, is found by the court to be withholding his or her consent unreasonably;

    (h) Has been properly served notice of the proceeding in accordance with the requirements of this chapter, but has been found by the court, after examining written reasons for the withholding of consent, to be unreasonably withholding his or her consent; or

    (i) Is the spouse of the person to be adopted who has failed to consent, and the failure of the spouse to consent to the adoption is excused by reason of prolonged and unexplained absence, unavailability, incapacity, or circumstances that are found by the court to constitute unreasonable withholding of consent.
    (4) FINDING OF ABANDONMENT.--A finding of abandonment resulting in a termination of parental rights must be based upon clear and convincing evidence that a parent or person having legal custody has abandoned the child in accordance with the definition contained in s. 63.032. A finding of abandonment may also be based upon emotional abuse or a refusal to provide reasonable financial support, when able, to a birth mother during her pregnancy.
    (a) In making a determination of abandonment at a hearing for termination of parental rights under this chapter, the court shall consider, among other relevant factors not inconsistent with this section:
    1. Whether the actions alleged to constitute abandonment demonstrate a willful disregard for the safety or welfare of the child or the unborn child;

    2. Whether the person alleged to have abandoned the child, while being able, failed to provide financial support;

    3. Whether the person alleged to have abandoned the child, while being able, failed to pay for medical treatment; and

    4. Whether the amount of support provided or medical expenses paid was appropriate, taking into consideration the needs of the child and relative means and resources available to the person alleged to have abandoned the child.
    (b) The child has been abandoned when the parent of a child is incarcerated on or after October 1, 2001, in a federal, state, or county correctional institution and:
    1. The period of time for which the parent has been or is expected to be incarcerated will constitute a significant portion of the child's minority. In determining whether the period of time is significant, the court shall consider the child's age and the child's need for a permanent and stable home. The period of time begins on the date that the parent enters into incarceration;

    2. The incarcerated parent has been determined by a court of competent jurisdiction to be a violent career criminal as defined in s. 775.084, a habitual violent felony offender as defined in s. 775.084, convicted of child abuse as defined in s. 827.03, or a sexual predator as defined in s. 775.21; has been convicted of first degree or second degree murder in violation of s. 782.04 or a sexual battery that constitutes a capital, life, or first degree felony violation of s. 794.011; or has been convicted of a substantially similar offense in another jurisdiction. As used in this section, the term "substantially similar offense" means any offense that is substantially similar in elements and penalties to one of those listed in this subparagraph, and that is in violation of a law of any other jurisdiction, whether that of another state, the District of Columbia, the United States or any possession or territory thereof, or any foreign jurisdiction; or

    3. The court determines by clear and convincing evidence that continuing the parental relationship with the incarcerated parent would be harmful to the child and, for this reason, termination of the parental rights of the incarcerated parent is in the best interest of the child.
    (5) DISMISSAL OF PETITION.--If the court does not find by clear and convincing evidence that parental rights of a parent should be terminated pending adoption, the court must dismiss the petition and that parent's parental rights that were the subject of such petition shall remain in full force under the law. The order must include written findings in support of the dismissal, including findings as to the criteria in subsection (4) if rejecting a claim of abandonment. Parental rights may not be terminated based upon a consent that the court finds has been timely withdrawn under s. 63.082 or a consent to adoption or affidavit of nonpaternity that the court finds was obtained by fraud or duress. The court must enter an order based upon written findings providing for the placement of the minor. The court may order scientific testing to determine the paternity of the minor at any time during which the court has jurisdiction over the minor. Further proceedings, if any, regarding the minor must be brought in a separate custody action under chapter 61, a dependency action under chapter 39, or a paternity action under chapter 742.

    (6) JUDGMENT TERMINATING PARENTAL RIGHTS PENDING ADOPTION.--
    (a) The judgment terminating parental rights pending adoption must be in writing and contain findings of fact as to the grounds for terminating parental rights.

    (b) Within 7 days after filing, the court shall mail a copy of the judgment to the department. The clerk shall execute a certificate of the mailing.

    (c) The judgment terminating parental rights pending adoption legally frees the child for subsequent adoption, adjudicates the child's status, and may not be challenged by a person claiming parental status who did not establish parental rights before the filing of the petition for termination, except as specifically provided in this chapter.
    (7) RELIEF FROM JUDGMENT TERMINATING PARENTAL RIGHTS.--
    (a) A motion for relief from a judgment terminating parental rights must be filed with the court originally entering the judgment. The motion must be filed within a reasonable time, but not later than 1 year after the entry of the judgment. An unmarried biological father does not have standing to seek relief from a judgment terminating parental rights if the mother did not identify him to the adoption entity before the date she signed a consent for adoption or if he was not located because the mother failed or refused to provide sufficient information to locate him.

    (b) No later than 30 days after the filing of a motion under this subsection, the court must conduct a preliminary hearing to determine what contact, if any, shall be permitted between a parent and the child pending resolution of the motion. Such contact shall be considered only if it is requested by a parent who has appeared at the hearing. If the court orders contact between a parent and child, the order must be issued in writing as expeditiously as possible and must state with specificity any provisions regarding contact with persons other than those with whom the child resides.

    (c) At the preliminary hearing, the court, upon the motion of any party or upon its own motion, may order scientific testing to determine the paternity of the minor if the person seeking to set aside the judgment is alleging to be the child's father and that fact has not previously been determined by legitimacy or scientific testing. The court may order visitation with a person for whom scientific testing for paternity has been ordered and who has previously established a bonded relationship with the child.

    (d) Unless otherwise agreed between the parties or for good cause shown, the court shall conduct a final hearing on the motion for relief from judgment within 45 days after the filing and enter its written order as expeditiously as possible thereafter.
    (8) RECORDS; CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION.--All papers and records pertaining to a petition to terminate parental rights pending adoption are related to the subsequent adoption of the minor and are subject to s. 63.162. An unmarried biological father does not have standing to seek the court case number or access the court file if the mother did not identify him to the adoption entity before the date she signed the consent for adoption. The confidentiality provisions of this chapter do not apply to the extent information regarding persons or proceedings is made available as specified under s. 63.088.

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    Default Re: Step Parent Adoption When the Biological Father is Incarcerated

    Thank you, I will look into this, but my fear is that because he is incarcerated and the case involves his sexual battery of my oldest daughter, he is on a no contact order through the state. In addition November 2009, my husband, two daughters and I went to the local court house and had our hearing for Permanent Repeat Violence Injuction(for my current husband)Repeat Sexual Violence Injunction(Oldest daughter), and 2 Domestic violence injunctions(my youngest daughter, and myself)put into place against my ec husband. So the ex husband is not allowed to contact us in anyway, shape or form. Now I am afraid that by protecting my family with these injunctions that he may be able to fight the adoption more as well. but there is always adult adoption. Thanks again.

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