I have a son who is 20 months old. His father is a registered sex offender through the state of Fla.. He was 19 and the girl he was put in prison for was under 12 years old.. His dad and I are about to go to court as he wants to try to get custody of my son.. I have been letting my son go and stay at his father every other weekend. (he lives with his parents, so my son sleeps in his parents room) Just recently his father has been calling me while my son is there telling me that I need to clean his private parts. I asked what he was talking about and he told me that my son had white stuff on his private part.. My son is circumcised so there is no reason for me to pull his skin back and clean him.. I even asked his pediatrician if it was normal and she said yes. I explained to him that it was normal for it to be there and to leave it be.. When my son comes from his fathers house his private parts have been swollen and one time he even had a UTI.. I dont really trust him alone with my son. So I have stopped all visits with him and told him if he wanted to see his son he is to come to my home and see him. Due to him being on probation is not aloud to be in my home. Although he is dating a girl who has 3 kids and is aloud to be around them and even stay at his house. He just bought a house and they are suppose to be moving in together. Is he allowed to live with children that are not family while he is on probation? Another thing is i have been getting threatening emails and text msgs from his gf saying she was going to kidnap my son. Some saying she was going to take my son out of state. Saying that if her and her friends saw me on the streets they would beat my a**.. Also that when they move in with each when i bring my son over that I would leave their house the same way I showed up. can i use this all in court when we go and how do you think it would end? I have already taken her to court for harassment/threats in the past and they were thrown out. The judge told us both to grow up. Cops were called last night and they informed me of my rights as a parent and told me to not take my son to his dads and stay away from them. Will keeping him from his son because of the threats hurt me in court? Any help would be appreciated.