Re: Would a Judge Order Me to Sign
a judge cannot really make you do anything and a judge cannot simply overrule a parents decision without justification. Even when there have been the problems of a parent refusing to allow medical attention for a child, the actions required to force the parent to allow medical attention, it was a very serious and in depth process.
I don't think you have anything to worry about with a court forcing the issue, especially given your reasons.
why don't you suggest something like ROTC? You get the military benefits, you enter as an officer, and you have a college degree before you go in to the active military part of your life.
I have a friend whose child is a dentist, all paid for by the military and a nephew who is a cardiothoracic anesthesiologist all on government money.
I am not an attorney and any advice is not to be construed as legal advice. You might even want to ignore my advice. Actually, there are plenty of real attorneys that you might want to ignore as well.